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A reddit all about dual sport motorcycles

2010.12.11 02:11 katui A reddit all about dual sport motorcycles

A sub all about riding dual sports or dual sporting rides.
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2021.01.05 16:26 MozzyFX Battlefield 2042 - News • Discussion • Community

Welcome to the home of Battlefield 2042! Your place for discussion, help, news, reviews, questions, screenshots, videos, gifs, and anything else BF2042 related! Battlefield 2042 is developed by DICE and produced by EA. This subreddit is ran by dedicated fans of the series and has no affiliation with EA or DICE.
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2018.05.05 14:10 Celebhub

Content of famous actresses, singers, models, athletes and other beautiful celebs.
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2023.06.09 01:12 uglythrowaway12000 End of 1st week of first rotation (surgery), feel like I've learned almost nothing

Just wanting to ask if this is normal or not. So far, I don't feel like I'm really getting anything out of this rotation(it's 3 weeks of the same surgical specialty before switching to the next surgical specialty). I'm not interested in surgery but it's worrying me that I'm just always standing around like an idiot, asking if I can help with something, and getting turned down. I've not been taught to change wound dressings, haven't had any suture offers, I know nothing about lines & many practical aspects of inpatient care, struggle with parts of a good physical exam, etc. Rounding is only like 5 minutes and I'm mostly in the OR all day doing nothing. Haven't even been able to present a full post-op h&p yet. Residents & attendings are nice but pretty much brush me aside.

Is this normal for a surgery rotation? I feel like a buffoon honestly, even though the days are 12 hours long.
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2023.06.09 01:11 affectionate_sloth Holding boundaries with your kid

We’ve all been there whether from the parent or the child’s perspective. Any advice on how to hold firm boundaries with my kiddo while they’re hyper focused on something they can’t have? Or something they want/want to do but it’s not possible.
I remember being a super stubborn kid. If I pushed my mom hard enough I knew I could always get her to bend. And I took advantage. And admittedly I grew up a bit entitled and incredibly self-centered and it’s taken a lot of work as an adult to overcome those things. My mom just couldn’t seem to hold boundaries so it’s something important to me that I learn to do for my kid.
At the moment it’s a toy she wants to buy that she saw online. It’s tricky because she wants to buy it with her savings and I’ve said no because she only just started the savings and has only $25 in it that she put in about a month ago. I’m trying my hardest to make it a teachable moment about saving money but she absolutely isn’t getting it. She’s hyper focused on what she wants and is trying every tactic in the book to get it. I’ve tried logic, I’ve suggested other chores she can do to earn the money, I’ve tried talking through it, I’ve been empathetic, I’ve been pushed to the limit then snapped, I’ve kindly asked her to just let it go, I’ve tried refusing to discuss it any further. This is not to mention that SHE JUST SPENT ALL HER POCKET MONEY on something else about 10 minutes earlier. She’s getting sucked into impulse buying already!
We’re going on 24 hours now of it being the only thing she will talk about. She’s sulking, she’s angry, she’s sad, she lashes out, she argues but just won’t give it up. She’s 7. I can only imagine what’s in store for me in the teenage years if I can’t figure out how to navigate this stuff.
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2023.06.09 01:11 Snowzzy505 Should i be main Junkerqueen?

I really like the character a lot for several reasons, one of them being her cinematics and abilities! But I don't know if I should invest in her. My three most played characters are Genji (who I very much regret) with 40 hours, Ramattra with 20 hours and Cassidy with 18 hours. The other 400 hours of gameplay are for several other characters, one of them being the junkerqueen which I don't know if it's worth being main and among my most played.
The skills are very fun and the character is sensational....but is it really worth investing a lot in her? I would like to know your opinion!
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2023.06.09 01:11 ThrowRA_spectre my gf (18f) wont let me (18m) talk to any other females

me and my girlfriend are in a serious relationship. The start of the relationship was like a dream. she let me have freedom to do what i wanted and didn’t complain about me talking to any other females. But after about four months of dating, she started easing her way into my social life. I gave her my phone password and she would snoop around in my phone (with my consent). About a month after this, we swapped snap passwords and every time she saw me online for a long period of time after we haven’t been talking for a while (usually about three hours or so), she would log in and see what i was up to. On snap, if someone logs into your account, it will log you out, which is how i knew she was logging in, and she would see that i did have some close female friends. All of a sudden (after about 5 1/2 month of dating) she started getting all jealous and making me feel bad on purpose for talking to them. She would say stuff like “you can have her if you think she’s so nice” whenever she caught me mid conversation with them or i said that i wanted to go do my own thing for a little while. I’ve tried to negotiate terms for talking to other females, but whenever i did she would pretend to be okay with it saying things like “you can do what you want, it’s whatever”. Whenever she’s mad at me, her texting style changes and she gets more dry and uses more abbreviations etc. i’ve given up on trying to talk to other females, and she always says “i’m all you need” “you don’t need those other bi-“. A lot of people tell me to break up with her or place a firm boundary in place, but i love her with my whole heart and i just want her to be happy. We’ve been dating for 7 months now. Do you have any advice for me reddit?
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2023.06.09 01:10 AdministrationOk4060 Finally on my CPAP/PAP trial, 2 weeks

Hello everyone,
As you all know I've been following this thread and many others related to sleep apnea. I did a sleep study back in October of 2022, which was an at home study. The results were no shock to me if I am being quite frank. In a month later I called to put my name on a waitlist at the sleep clinic where I took the at home test to do a trial run of a cpap/pap machine.
For the past more than a decade I have been quite exhausted beyond repair if you will. Everyday I would wake up groggy, than an hour or more later I would yawn and feel so tired. I tried everything from coffee to even going to bed early. Had zero luck. On top of everything pretty much most nights I couldn't fall asleep. I use to work 6+ hours at many fast paced restaurants by being on my feet. It truly took a toll on my health overall.
Alright fast forward to 8 months later, I finally got the call a week ago that I am able to begin the trial run. To preface the call was on June 1st and about 5 days later I was able to go pick up the machine and bring it home. I only had to pay $300, but the clinician said the payment was only for the mask. As in the beginning I was confused why it was going to cost $300 for the rental.
Anywho I am now on day 3 with the machine. It's the Resmed airsense 10 autoset for her. The first night was short lived. Before I slept with it, I did put on the mask on while sitting and laying down to make sure it was comfortable. At first didn't like the brand the new smell that the mask gives off. The instructions they gave me were to wear it 30 minutes before going to bed for a few nights just to get use to it, but in reality I just went for it for night one. I wore it for 3 hours. During the first night I got watery eyes as I was getting use to the pressure of the airflow into my nose, but by night two the watery eyes went away. Now on night two I had slept for 5 hours, stuffy nose and had to change the nose piece to a different size throughout the night. Also the instructions say doing 4 hours of cpap therapy is enough during the trial run.
Questions:
  1. Is it okay to go back to bed after you do a certain amount of hours with the machine in the adjustment phase? I only used it for 3 hours the first night, but took it off shut the machine down and slept without it. Did the same thing with using it for 5 hours and went back to bed right after.
  2. Do you really feel like your on a cloud when you begin therapy? I feel very strange in my body that is hard to explain and my eyes feel so wide awake. It's an odd feeling. I've been so sleep deprived for ages
P.S I am 29 years old, female and living in Alberta, Canada.
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2023.06.09 01:10 HalDakWolf Second ps4 controller to Steam Deck Issue

I have spent hours searching reddit pages and google pages and I have not found anyone talking about this issue. If anyone can help, I would be extremely greatful.
I am trying to connect 2 ps4 controllers to my Steam Deck. I am able to connect them via Bluetooth. Player 1 lights up blue, player 2 lights up red. I reordered the controllers so the ps4 controller comes first but there is no sign of the second controller. The second controller is non-responsive except for the trackpad that brings up a mouse when touched. The PS button doesn't even work. Im trying to set it up so it will recognise the second controller as player 2 so I can play some couch co-op.
With what I can understand, it seems that both controllers are recognised as one, with one acting as regular controls and the second acting as a mouse pad.
I have tried everything I can think of in both the desktop mode and in the regular mode when you boot up.
Anyone encounter this issue and has found a fix for this?
Thanks
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2023.06.09 01:10 bubmer Gracias Ruben/Thanks Ruben

Gracias Ruben/Thanks Ruben
Tu app era lo mejor de esta pagina horrorosa, gracias por las horas que le metiste
Your app was the best for this horrible, horrible website thanks for all the hours you put in
Obligatory fuck u/spez, hope your IPO is as bad as Faze's
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  5. Template Contracts, Sales Scripts, Agreements & More
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2023.06.09 01:10 deaquiydealla I'm finding Midjourney is CAD + Rapid Viz combined

I'm finding Midjourney is CAD + Rapid Viz combined

Reference Image Library
I'm an industrial designer, with lots of 3D modeling experience. The more I use Midjourney for design work, the more I'm finding it's essentially two skillsets/tools combined - Rapid Viz and CAD.
Rapid viz in that it allows a lot of visual exploration without huge time investments.
CAD in that you can visualize in high fidelity, it has a range of tools to work with, and it requires a lot of hours in the saddle to start getting a good command of the tool.
These images act as, basically shaders for midjourney, that I created to to drive my concept work.
The strategy and technique required to drive it is much more complex than the surface level impression of it as simple "text to image".
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2023.06.09 01:09 guitarmanwithaplan It keeps going downhill and I’m so scared I need advice

So I was sitting in my living room and I heard my microwave beep once randomly even though I was home alone. Then, it started beeping a few more times at different pitches and it sounded vaguely like the tune of my favorite song. A few minutes later I decided to watch YouTube and the first videos on my recommended for you page was the official music video for the song that the microwave beeped the tune of and, more videos about installing microwaves. Then about a hour later I saw weird dark shadowy reflections in the windows and on the clock in my wall like someone was quickly moving around, but I didn’t hear anything. About 2 hours ago as the sun goes down the reflections keep happening and I looked out the window. In the street in front of my home I saw a gray minivan with a bunch of bumper stickers on it drive up. It backed into my driveway and turned around, then left. I took pictures of the van before it left and I was able to make some of them out. One of them is a sticker that is related to the band that made my favorite song that the microwave beeped out the tune of. This is terrifying.
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2023.06.09 01:09 BagofBabbish RTO Took Me From A Rising High-Performer To A Depressed Underachiever

I’m basically nuking my credibility on my finance subs, but RTO has destroyed my mental health, made into a far less productive employee, and hindered my career progression.
I’m an introvert that’s bad at small talk. I suffer from anxiety and I’m extremely self conscious. While I can make friends and hold a social life, and maintain a relationship, it doesn’t come naturally and requires considerable effort - especially small talk. I’m also a night owl that can work easily until 2am, but I struggle in the mornings (given my anxiety and self-consciousness it takes me a long time to get dressed).
Remote work changed my life incredibly. I was suddenly able to log on early and I didn’t have a problem working well into the evening. I made great friends with my coworkers over cell and chat, and I was more respected in meetings. I was promoted four times, given multiple raises, and was able to double my pay in jobs across the country.
Out of a show of loyalty, I made a huge mistake leaving my city to go to the small town my current employer is located in, then they broke their promises and sent us all back to office.
I’ve since become clinically depressed, I’ve gained 15 lbs, and my productivity has tanked. I’ve begun getting negative reviews for cultural integration and I’ve lost my ability to be considered for jobs in any major city given my location.
The kicker is, being in finance, I’ve seen no savings, just people using their vacation time again. It’s honestly disgusting. This is a mental health crisis and it’s being treated as laziness. I was clocking 60-70 hour weeks at home and going the extra mile.
Anyone else feel like this?
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2023.06.09 01:09 Starfire323 Fatigue

Oof- hey guys. Just wanted to vent as I’ve been having some bipolar fatigue as of late and it’s been really hard. Like, can’t move from my bed for hours on end hard. Household chores are taking a hit. Every time I get in the car to go do something necessary I literally have to instruct myself step by step just to get to my destination. My brain/reactions feel sluggish/slow. Just getting my foot from the gas to the break is effort- something I usually never think about.
Making food is too hard and even warming up things from fridge is too much. I have a wonderful rose garden that I have barely been able to force myself to tend to. My work to-do list is suffering and my comprehension, concentration, and motivation have tanked. I hate this disease.
Sending love to everyone who is struggling right now. <3
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2023.06.09 01:08 AndroidShelf44 I have absolutely no privacy, every single conversation gets twisted into criticising me, and apparently I am the one who is incapable of living "in community".

I am 22M and I still live with my parents, I believe my father is a narcissist and that would be the tamest term I would use. Also, big disclaimer that this will be a dump of some of the things that bother me the most about my life until now as it relates to my parents. I am afraid some of this stuff is gonna sound like massive 1st world problems but honestly, if it's not here and through a secondary account, when where else could I vent about it?
I also feel like I brought this upon myself because I'm still 22 and still living with them, and get reminded of how pathetic I am every single day for that fact. I returned from graduating uni a few months back, and unfortunately, I haven't managed to find a full time job despite my efforts. I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to afford to move out now, and the average emancipation age in my country is over 30 years old, it'd be a fucking miracle.
At 18, I got the chance to study my entire degree in a foreign country, and I didn't even blink. Just the idea of having 3 entire years, which seemed like an eternity at the time but then came and went in a flash, 3 entire years when I would be able to finally have any sort of privacy in my life, that I wouldn't have to put up with my father's unpredictable mood swings and obsession with making everyone else feel like shit, plus they would be super-willing to help me financially through it, it seemed like a dream.
And it was. All my life I have had to share rooms with my brother, who is just over a year younger. It's not because we couldn't afford two separate rooms, in fact, we shared one where we slept and changed clothes, and one where we'd study and entertain ourselves. I don't know, I guess my parents thought it would be an amazing idea to force two brothers of close age to share everything, and to keep them like that despite them being like oil and water. My brother would bully me from the moment he was able to do so. Every time I'd meet new kids at the park or when we went somewhere, we would then manage to turn them all against me just to make me miserable. He would break my stuff, he would embarrass me in front of others, and he would also physically attack me, as I am a pacifist. Nowadays, he likes to belittle me for being less fit, for having friends he deems "weird" because some of them happen to be autistic, and also belittles my career (finance) for not being a STEM field, despite him being stuck in 1st year of engineering for the 3rd year in a row. Also threatens to beat me up if I ever stand up to him, and he could.
So with that context, after spending 3 years not having to deal with that shit, I come back. Suddenly, I remember all the bullshit. I cannot close the door, my father has threatened with removing it twice now. My brother likes to sit behind me and peep into my laptop for hours at a time, and I am not allowed to set it up anywhere else. I still have to sleep in a bed one meter away from someone I have hated my whole life.
My father is a fucking asshole. All he has ever cared about is his fucking bicycle. If it rains and means he can't do his route this Saturday, then he unloads that frustration on us. Same with any frustrations he has but he really cares too much about that specific thing. Only thing he ever did to bond with us was teach us to ride a bike, since then he has been disappointed every time our preferences didn't align. Never cared about the things me or my brother liked, like video games, astronomy or music. In fact, he has literally stated that he'd rather me being taking drugs under a bridge than playing an online game with my irl friends. There are some things we actually have in common, like he loves skiing but since I'm not as good as him and my brother, and being around him normally already feels like walking on eggshells, then imagine that but skiing. And he and I are also big Metallica fans, and he took me to a concert recently, but I will never go to anything with him again. He blew his chances at being liked or even tolerated beyond necessity.
He is the worst person I know to be around. Every misstep you make, every minuscule inefficient movement you perform, everything you do that isn't up to his particular way of doing things, he will turn into a fucking lecture, remind you of every single instance, talk you down to and essentially make you feel like you're a useless piece of trash. What else, he fucking hates to see a door that is close. The door our room where I have my stuff set up goes out to the entrance of the apartment, for some fucking reason, and yet, I am not able to have it closed. Every time he sees it he has to open it, remark on how he doesn't like the temperature in a room HE NEVER USES, and leave it open. Lately also threatening to remove the door altogether. And he installed a magnet to keep the door fully open as well.
Another example, from just today. For some reason, he wants to mess around with the home telephones, which all connect to the same number and I have one on my desk. Well, he decides he wants to mess around with this shit without telling me beforehand, so of course he yells at me because I didn't clear the space, because god forbid there are things on my fucking table, because it is hotter in a room containing a human and a laptop than in the other empty rooms, which obviously is my fucking fault, and I also had an important online meeting scheduled for that precise time. Of course, it ends up with him storming out yelling about whatever the fuck annoys him, which is absolutely everything you can think of.
When I returned to our home town from uni I had to get surgery, which in short, left me with a pretty big wound in an awkward place, which needed healing. I followed all of what the doctor said, but my father disagreed. He fucking belittled the doctor because he hated seeing that I would spend time playing video games at some point when I was supposed to stay home and let it heal. He thinks he knows more than the freaking doctors man.
Another quirk of the man is he's a fucking Karen, and racist to boot although he wouldn't act racist in public. He often comes bragging about how he yelled or insulted a random person on the street or on the road because they "didn't follow the rules". Like a girl not wearing a mask in the metro for a minute (already in 2023 btw), or someone didn't use their blinkers properly or whatever. Like minor stuff you would be annoyed about, ignore and go on with your life. He likes to talk a lot about how we should be careful in the streets and avoid trouble, yet he is constantly buying tickets to get his ass handed to him with the way he treats others.
My mother suffers a lot, yet she won't try anything to solve the situation. She basically gets as much shit as I do, and instead of supporting each other because we love each other, she get angry at me because I did some otherwise normal or minor thing that got my father fired up, and she had to "defend me". Many of us in the family, including myself and her sister, have asked her to consider divorce, but it's like she never listens. Last year my father didn't talk to us for like 2 weeks after he ruined my brother's 20th birthday by being an asshole and making everyone uncomfortable at what should have been a nice lunch, and my mother supposedly "made things clear" to him after that, (btw he never apologised), yet now it's like that never happened at all. She will be miserable at how he treats her and us, in one moment, he will storm out of the place with a door slam, and then next day they seem to have forgotten that, its seriously fucking uncanny.
Lately, I have tried leaving the room whenever I couldn't be bother to up up with his shit, but he chases me around the apartment. I have even left meals without finishing because his beer-fueled ramblings start to push my buttons. One day, when my mother was out of town I left the food he prepared on the table and went to spend the entire afternoon to my grandparents (mother's parents), because he kept acting like an asshole towards me even after the 5th time of "stopping". He threatened to beat me (has never done so), but I didn't give a shit, left and spent such a chill evening with 2 people who actually care for each other and their family, until my brother told me we went to sleep. I ignored his messages through that day, and he sometimes still brings up that I still have to answer. I didn't tell him where I had gone, though I thought it was pretty obvious, it was also a rainy day. Apparently he was "worried", good fuck him.
Other times, I try to actually stand out for myself and match his tone, or just reply to his bullshit. It either ends in a competition to see who can yell loudest, him declaring how everything I own is "his", how he is going to kick me out, and would only end by him starting to yell how I'm an idiot, how I'm an ignorant, with absolutely no arguments, just denial of the truths I speak to him.
Honestly, I can't wait to move out ASAP. I have good friends but they got shit to deal with of their own, and I don't feel like I deserve the hospitality of other family members. My grandfather (father's) treated him similarly, and of course he did the mega infinite IQ strategy of repeating the cycle, because he's a fucking idiot. But now my grandfather will defend my father and always be on his side, so I can't even count on them.
I want to have kid(s) at some point, I hope I'm not stupid enough to engage on that cycle myself.
If you read all the way here, I'm honestly impressed. Thanks.
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2023.06.09 01:08 s8nsch1ld controlling mom

So I'm 22 years old (female) and recently moved back in with my parents after living on my own for 3 years and it's been seriously mentally draining. I originally left home at 18 after my mom pushed me over the edge when she got enraged that I came home 11:30 at night after having thanksgiving dinner with my boyfriends family and I packed my things and left. unfortunately I had to move back earlier this year due to having to pay for university and my dad helping me with the costs but it has been unbearable. I naively believed that she had matured and would see me as an adult given that I am 22 years old and work to pay for my own expenses but it seems as though nothing has changed. I'm still required to ask for permission to do anything and she's gotten mad when I come home at 9:00 pm. It is so embarrassing getting invited to go to dinner with my managers after work and having to turn it down because "my mommy wont let me". I understand I'm under her roof and it's her rules but my dad has even told me I don't have to ask for permission and just let them know of my plans so they're aware but it doesn't seem to click for her. Just today I went to the store with my sister for about an hour or so and we got yelled at for taking too long and "always wanting to be out". I stood my ground since I didn't think we were in the wrong and she yelled at me saying i'm disrespectful and rude and that i owe her respect because she's my mother but to me respect is earned not given.
Any advice on how to deal with the situation? I've tried having civilized conversations with her about her attitude towards me and how cold she is with her emotions but it just leads to screaming matches and her calling me ungrateful and disrespectful. I'm getting to the point where I feel I should just leave again but I don't want it to affect my relationship with my dad and sisters like it did last time. Please help.
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2023.06.09 01:08 FUTRage Tips For Developing This Into A Passion Project?

Over the course of the years I just rambled on a little notebook and probably have amassed ~50 somewhat finished songs.
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